Ed, I agree, and therefore am irresponsible too? I think the best way to "get one's paddle wet" is to spend more and more hours on the water, whether it be rivers, ponds, lakes or calm, protected sea. That was my approach when I started, and I joined as many SnGs and calendar trips as I could reasonably do. You're right about the "safety in numbers" concept, and most of the SnGs that I have participated in have been in benign conditions. Perhaps those who list a SnG could encourage, and welcome inquiries from, newcomers in their message. Gary