Thank you Brenda, I appreciate your feedback. It is helpful. I also appreciate your willingness to engage with Rick in a way that was both honest, self-reflective and respectful. Rick, I also appreciate your willingness to engage with Brenda and it was very kind of you to offer your time. I do become concerned when a message thread veers away from being helpful toward insulting. That is not the purpose of the club and I hope are able to consistently find the balance between challenging, educating and being considerate of one another.